Thanks so much everyone for all of your comments this past week. I really took them in and pondered a lot.
I did decide and told him last night that I wanted the burner phone from the garage. We just went and picked it up and it is dead, just as he said it would be.
I now have it with me and I will look at it when I have some private time to myself. He has told me "I haven't called, texted, etc., I have no idea what she has done". I guess we will see.
I don't care what she says or did, I only care about what he does.
Could he buy another phone, yes, absolutely, and I wouldn't know. I guess I will have to face that as time progresses.
For today though I feel proud that at least I stood up for myself and told him what I wanted and needed. It was a small step but at least a step forward for my own self-esteem and strength
Thank you all for all of your support