annb ( member #22386) posted at 3:10 PM on Friday, August 28th, 2026
I am sorry your fiance turned out to be a cheater, it must be devastating, but you have dodged a HUGE bullet. This would have been your life after you said "I Do."
Please find a good trauma counselor and lean on trusted family members and friends. Also, get tested for STDS asap. 
Meet with your MD for some temporary medications if you are having a difficulty sleeping or coping.
You are only 23, you deserve someone who is going to be faithful to you and not have extremely loose boundaries.
Stay as busy as possible, exercise, eat healthy foods, meet up with friends, and give yourself some grace during this emotional roller coaster.
Hugs.....
